Mom Needs a Nursing Home. Should I Spend Down Her Assets to Qualify for Medicaid?

by Andrew Rosenberg | Aug 31, 2025 | asset protection, Medicaid, Trusts

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At Rosenberg Law Firm, I hear this question constantly: “Mom suddenly needs nursing home care. Do we really have to spend down everything she owns before she can qualify for Medicaid?”

Short answer: No. And thank goodness, because nursing homes in Florida can run over $100,000 a year. Most families can’t pay that for long without ending up broke. But with smart planning, you don’t have to torch every last dollar.

Medicare vs. Medicaid: What You Need to Know
Let’s clear up the confusion.

  • Medicare is for short-term rehab after a hospital stay.

  • Medicaid is what pays for long-term nursing home care.

  • The catch? Medicaid comes with strict financial rules.

The Middle-Class Squeeze
Here’s where most families get stuck. You’ve got too much to qualify for Medicaid right away, but not enough to comfortably pay nursing home bills forever. That’s where planning comes in. With the right strategy, you can protect a lot more than you think.

Ways to Protect Assets
An elder law attorney (hi, that’s me) can help you explore options like:

  • Creating trusts that protect assets while still preserving Medicaid eligibility

  • Prepaying funeral and other allowed expenses

  • Shifting resources to protect a healthy spouse at home

  • Planning so money can cover supplemental needs like hearing aids, dental work, or private caregivers

For married couples, it’s sometimes possible to protect nearly everything. For single individuals, you may need to spend down part, but with proper planning families often keep 40%–70% instead of losing it all.

Why Planning Ahead Beats Panic Spending
Spending down without a plan is a disaster waiting to happen. Gifting money away can trigger Medicaid’s “look-back” penalties. On the other hand, careful planning protects assets, keeps you compliant, and still provides for quality-of-life needs.

If your loved one suddenly needs nursing home care, don’t panic and don’t start writing checks blindly. Medicaid planning done correctly can save money, dignity, and sanity.

At Rosenberg Law Firm, we guide families through these tough choices every day. If you’re facing a nursing home crisis or want to get ahead of one, let’s talk. Register for a Workshop today.

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